The secret works for lots of people but it’s not as easy as it looks. This blog has a little more about it Does the secret work You may say it works for other people and it doesn’t work for you but what have you done besides sit on your butt and wish for things? That doesn’t work.
The secret requires a totally new mindset and quite probably for most of you, a new way of living. You see using the secret in the most effective way requires you to make some lifestyle changes. The fact that most of you want to stay stuck in your safety zones is why the secret doesn’t work for you.
If you just sit and wish and don’t change your way of thinking and the way you see things it will never work. If you don’t get rid of the things in your life that are holding you back it will never work. If you don’t get rid of the negative people you hang out with it will never work. If you don’t get off your butt and do something it will never work.
It takes a major lifestyle change for most of you to make it work. You see, it’s not a miracle cure, it’s a lifestyle and a way of living. The secret requires you to make changes in the way you think and the things you do. No change and it doesn’t work.
You must get out of the negative thinking that you’ve had for most of your life. You need to get rid of a lot of the bad habits you’ve had for most of your life. Lol, yeah, I know, you don’t want to do all the things you need to do because it does take effort on your part. No effort put in but wishing and hoping and you get nothing back.
Being grateful for what you have when you feel you have nothing is a tough concept. Take a homeless person for instance. What do they have to be grateful for? How about for having clothes, shoes, a sharp mind, perhaps a safer place to sleep than other homeless people. Many of you say how could it be worse than being homeless. How about homeless and in a wheelchair, how about being homeless and having cancer. Aspire to more but always be grateful for what you have because it can always get worse.
How many of you have written down what you want. How many of you have made a board with pictures on it of what you want? Lol, I have exactly what I want on the desktop of my PC. I see it probably 50 times per day. The interesting thing is I have achieved one of the things I wanted very much and the others are in the process.
Yes, I’ve changed my way of thinking. Yes, I’ve changed a lot of my friends. Yes, Ive changed a lot of my attitudes. Yes, I’m getting the things I want. Yes, I attribute most of getting the things I want to The Secret.
Do things come as fast as I want them to. Nope, hardly ever. However that’s not the point. The point is I work at it and the things do come, even if it’s very slow sometimes. If I didn’t work at it and put some effort into it nothing would come no matter how hard I wished for it or wanted it.
How many of you have take the time to wirte down exactly what you want. I suspect most of you think that’s a step you can skip because it’s to hard to figure out what you want or wirte it down. You can’t skip steps and expect to succeed. You can’t stay the same and expect to succeed.
If the secret isn’t working for you I suggest you place the blame squarely where it belongs. On yourself.
