Who chose your current reality? Did you? Did your family? How about your mom or dad? The biggest problem with reality is it isn’t real. Your reality is shaped by everything that has ever happend to you and by everything you were ever taught.

You not only teach people by telling them things, you also teach them with your actions. Ever watch child between the ages of 18 months and 30 months old. They do or try to do the exact same things their parents do. They do it longer than that but thats when I seem to notice it most.

If mom sweeps the child will grab the broom and try do do it. If mom or dad hits then the child will probably hit mom, other people, dad, dolls or action figures. If dad yells then the kids will probably yell. If dad works on cars then his son will try to do the same thing. Lol, maybe on the same car dad was working on.

Point is children at that age are learning what you do. Not if it’s right or wrong, just what you do. Then they try to act the same way. That’s their reality. That’s the same reality they are going to have when they are adults.

Telling them not to do something and then letting them see you do it doesn’t work. For you to be believed words and actions have to match.

Reality is a bitch, but, it belongs to you. That means you can change your own reality and by changing your reality now, you can change the reality of your childrens future. You’ll also be changing the reality of your future.

Your reality depends on you. Make it something you want, not something everyone esle wants. You can change it or you can leave it as it is. That’s also your choice. That’s what reality is all about.